Hm. I've been thinking about this for the past few days, so I thought I'd just let it out of my system.

When we see other people being happy, a couple walking together for example, we see them walking happily, feeling comfortable in each other's company. What we see is their feelings at that certain point of time, the physical emotions that they show, the situation that is only going on at that particular moment.

What we don't see is the underlying emotions that are present, what they have fought about the day before, the problems that they had forgotten at that time that we are watching them.

When we see that people are happy, we don't see and don't think about the problems that they do face and encounter.

-----

Jealousy is a strong emotion.

The important thing is, kau kena pandai jaga diri kau.

Kalau selama ni semua lelaki/perempuan pun bole bertepuk-tampar dengan kau, pegang kau, takkan kalau boy/girl kau cakap dengan perempuan/lelaki lain pun kau nak jealous?

Then selama kau tak menjaga batas kau selama ni, selama semua orang dapat merasa diri kau sebelum ni, selama semua orang dapat rapat dengan kau sebelum ni, kau ingat dia tak pernah fikir pasal benda-benda tu? Kau tak fikir betapa jealousnya dia bila dia teringat yang ada orang lain pernah sentuh kau, pernah rasa sayang dari kau?

Of course, benda yang da lepas biar lah lepas.

Cuma, kalau kau jealous, jagalah diri kau dulu.

Kau jealous kalau dia bertegur dengan lelaki/perempuan yang pernah ada scandal dengan dia, tapi kalau kau beramah mesra dengan lelaki/perempuan yang pernah ada scandal dengan kau bole pulak eh?

What goes around comes around, kalau kau macam tu, pasangan hidup kau pun akan macam tu gak.

Jangan asyik nak cari salah orang kalau diri sendiri pun buat salah yang sama.

Of course, the same applies to me too.