= La La Land =

2009-08-31T21:46:00.001+08:00

*vows to take more pictures from now on*

2009-08-31T21:24:00.000+08:00

Ok, so Kaybee wants me to post about my work.

Hm. The work that I'm doing right now is not really my ideal kind of work, plus I'm only in a 1 year contract. But it does teaches me a lot about logistics and warehousing. I've been working for two months now, and am getting the hang of it. My colleagues are also great, and I get to work with people from the Philippines, Korea and Japan. And I liaise with warehouses from all across Asia Pacific, including Australia and New Zealand. It's definitely an interesting experience.

But I still want to try my luck in Human Resources though, preferably with a company that has a lot of workers. My preference would be to work in a working environment with a lot of colleagues and workload, with minimal office politics. My current workplace, unfortunately, has quite a bit of office politics going on.

2009-08-25T20:58:00.000+08:00

It's been 3 months since I've last blogged.

Updates:
1. I've graduated
2. I've been working for two months now with DHL
3. I have to go for GIDR training in Singapore tomorrow
4. I'm not sure that I love my job

Anyways, does anyone even read my blog anymore?

Let's do a test:
If you're reading this, please leave a comment in the chatbox on your right regarding a topic that you'd like me to blog about.

Heh. That's all. I'm short of ideas right now.

2009-05-21T11:27:00.000+08:00

It's hard sometimes for me to really understand where I am now.

I seem to have lost so much, especially taking into who I was during high school and who I am now.

But I also seem to have gain a lot, the friends that I have, the experiences that I have gained.

I've lost my drive, my ambitions, the pathway that I was supposed to go through.

But I've gained precious friends that have taught me a lot, gone through hard and sad memories, friends that I can call up anytime for life.

I've changed, and I don't know if it's for the good or not.

2009-02-25T03:09:00.001+08:00

I will try as hard as I can...

2009-02-23T01:13:00.000+08:00

I have not been this sad for a long time..

2009-02-22T11:14:00.001+08:00

I am being forced to do things that I do not want to do.

I am being forced to forget the life that I want.

I am being forced to live my life the way others want it.

I am being bound to the life that I do not want to live.

Is it possible to get away from everything when your conscience keeps nagging at you to do otherwise?

Is it acceptable for me to give up my life and happiness to please them?

Can break a pattern that has existed for these last 22 years?

Am I willing to give up my life to him the way my mom had once did?

How many lives can one man destroy?

They say that the future is bright, but from my experience the only thing that existed in my past was darkness, and any sentence with the word 'future' in it becomes dark as well.

How do you say no to the people who gave you your life?

2009-02-17T22:17:00.000+08:00

A little while ago something unexpected happened.
I was not expecting it to come from the person that it came from, because all this while I thought that I was the only one feeling that way.
I thought that I was alone, and that that person would not like my thoughts and opinions, but on the contrary, that person shared the same thoughts as me.

It was unexpected.
And yet, it helped me let go of what I've been wanting to let go off for this past year.

Do you know the feeling that you get when you want something so badly but you know that you can never get it because it is not meant for you? Because you know that the thing that you want is meant for someone else, and even though you know that you're never going to get it, deep down inside you're hoping as hell that in the end you'll have it?

At this point you end up miserable, because the only thing that you really want and was hoping for is the only thing that you can't get, because it used to belong to someone else. Someone that you don't like even. That's what makes it all even worse. You become angry, and keep blaming yourself and your faults, and end up thinking that you probably don't deserve anything.

And then you suddenly realise that you actually do have it, and that it has been with you all this while, it's just that you were too busy lamenting over the fact that you do not own it to realise that it's with you now?

And because of that one realisation, all the bottled up anger and feelings of self-depreciating goes away almost instantly? Because you finally realise that one thing, you are immediately able to forget about all that's happened in the past, and immediately regain your self-esteem. You become happy again.

The void is gone.
I won't be thinking about things that I shouldn't think about now.

2009-02-17T21:53:00.001+08:00

Do you know wanna know what I feel like eating now?

Ayam masak merah + kangkung belacan.

And a glass of cold sirap limau to top it all off.

2009-02-15T17:39:00.003+08:00

I think I'm healed.
No more emo-ing.

2009-02-06T19:47:00.004+08:00

It's hard.
Whatever I do, I can't help thinking.
Because I like asking what-if questions.
And they are never answered.
I want confirmation, not comfort.
It's hard.

sebab bagi aku, kau prefer orang lain..

2009-02-04T17:51:00.001+08:00

I got the proofreader job =)

2009-01-18T22:46:00.000+08:00

I'm sleepy as hell right now, but I have to tabahkan my eyes in order to watch Juara Lagu..

Only 45 minutes to go...

=_=

2009-01-16T07:51:00.000+08:00

Life fucks you up every time you think everything's going alright.

I'm tired of trying to pretend that I'm ok with all of it.

I'm tired of trying to convince myself that I don't care when the fact is that I care like hell.

It's better to just be alone.

I don't trust anyone.

2009-01-07T03:20:00.000+08:00

I've decided to be nicer to everyone.

God help me.

2008-12-17T20:06:00.000+08:00

Sometimes I just feel like running away as far as I can, with no strings attached to anyone.

2008-12-14T21:08:00.001+08:00

Aku tengah bakar ayam dalam oven kecik, sapu-sapu planta and everything kat atas ayam tu dari pukul 8 lebih tadi.

Ni tengah tunggu lagi seketul ayam masak. Yang last ni special sket, untuk adik aku yang tengah kerja kat The Store. (aku bakar best-best utk dia sebab dia kerja shift 12 jam hari ni, eceh..)

Sekarang ni aku da loya, banyak sangat bau planta and ayam bakar, tak boleh nak makan.

Wuekk..

2008-12-13T21:55:00.007+08:00

I haven't taken any picture for quite sometime, and I have this sudden urge to put my photo up here.

There. This picture was self-taken about a year ago. And it's my primary photo for Friendster and Facebook by the way.

Do you wanna know why?

Because that's the only picture of me that I think I look nice in.

Ahaha

I probably look more shabby now.

My roommate says that I look like some mafia chick in this picture.

I think I look girly.

I should be more macho.

I want a goatie and moustache >=(

2008-12-13T21:40:00.000+08:00

Please do not use me whenever you feel like it and think that I would do everything that I am asked to.

Aku tak kisah kalau aku dengan kau memang betul-betul rapat dan selalu keep in touch, even though jauh.

Tapi sekarang ni, kau cari aku bila kau need something, and ikut suka hati kau je nak anggap yang aku am willing to do anything.

Dah berapa lama kau senyap and buat aku rasa yang aku ni just mengganggu hidup kau?

Bila kau nak something baru kau cari aku, as if nothing has happened and everything is just dandy.

Jangan buat aku rasa macam aku ni kain buruk.

Aku takde apa-apa komitmen kat kau, dan aku bole cakap tak nak bila-bila masa je.

2008-12-06T09:52:00.000+08:00

I'm done being nice.

I was happier when I was in matrics, during which I never had to hurt myself for the sake of others.

I hate people who wear masks.

2008-12-03T15:02:00.000+08:00

Keinginan aku untuk mengeluarkan perkataan-perkataan yang kurang elok sangat tinggi sekarang ni.

Aku agak bengang dengan pasangan itu.

Aku rasa macam aku orang bodoh.

Sebab benda ni melibatkan diorang bertiga, dan aku ni kira macam 'spare-part' la.

Tangkap muat je.

Aku rasa bodoh.

bangkai betul

2008-11-29T20:40:00.000+08:00

I'm sad and feeling all weepy and emo now.

2008-11-27T16:26:00.001+08:00

Yeah, I haven't blogged in awhile. Here's a summary of what happened since my last post:

My music test was okay, the questions were easier than the ones during our midterm exam.
Came back to JB on Wednesday.
Laid around at home doing nothing for 4 days.
Went to Larkin bus station on Monday. Met up with Lyd and someone there. I also got a call from Telekom, and settled the matters regarding my final year project. I'll be going there for interviews from 1st (my bday!!) to 3rd December.

I seriously have nothing to do during this semester break, apart from celebrating my 21st birthday in Telekom interviewing old guys. Yep, life is good...

2008-11-10T10:35:00.004+08:00

It's hard knowing that there is something that you want to be, but never will be.

It's hard knowing that people expect you to be something that you will never will be.

It's hard knowing that you are not the first choice for someone.

It's hard knowing that you are totally different from what people want.

It's hard knowing that you are different from others, and maybe in a bad way.

It's hard knowing your faults, and unconsciously comparing yourself with everyone.

It's hard knowing that you aren't the best, because it feels like nobody deserves the bad luck to be with you.

Because if everyone was to be given a choice, I would be alone.

Yes, my own questions are a double edged sword for my own heart.

2008-11-09T20:01:00.000+08:00

Please treat me like a human being with feelings.

Please.